So everyone has an in put in my relationship, so I have been seen Brad for almost a year (well a year in March). But everyone or most people believe or think that one of us if not both of us have cheated or will cheat. All I can say that everyone is different, not everyone is a cheater. Maybe we all have tendency to cheat, it’s just our actions that matter.

Now most people think that this relationship is doomed to fail for more then one reason and they are as follow.

Cheating- well we covered this one, if we trust each other and we are 100% honest with each other that’s all that really matters.

Distance- now I will say that this is one of the tough ones, yeah the distance is hard. We don’t get to physically do things such as go out to dinner or the movies or just plain go out and do something. The other part of this is the time difference even though it’s only an hour difference it’s hard. He wakes up earlier and usually goes to sleep an hour earlier then I do, although there are times we do go to bed at the same time.

Talking- hmm this one has it’s issues with in itself. The hour difference and people around us play a huge roll on the time we get to talk. Some times as sad as it is I seem to wait to be able to talk to him. Then it’s interruptions or other peoples drama or just situations that one of us have to do. So there are a lot of unforeseen situation, but we have to try to make the best of it, even as hard as it is sometimes.

Sex- now most people are curious about this subject and I won’t get into it cuz all you have to do is use your imagination and we are in the 21st century….lol some people believe or think that we need to have a fuck buddy since we don’t have that connection, and that knowing we have a FB will keep us from cheating. Now I get the whole connection thing, cuz yeah I miss holding him or going to sleep in the same bed, but that doesn’t mean I’m going to go sleep with the first guy that throws himself at me. Yeah we all got needs, but that’s not gonna make me go cheat.

With all this said most people don’t understand how we can make it work or we think we can make it work. It’s not easy at times and it is stressful and annoying at times too. I can’t just drive to his place or his job and go to lunch or dinner. I can’t kiss him goodnight or kiss him goodbye in the morning. But I think/know we have something special that I want to pursue.

So you might not think this relationship might work, and that’s ok because it’s my relationship and not yours. The only person that really matters in this is him and what he thinks. I’m in a relationship with him and not you.

Maybe you think a relationship like this is not for you for whatever reasons, but doesn’t mean it’s not for us. Yeah it will be some work, but what relationship isn’t…….

With that I say Good day to you! I said GOOD DAY!!